Leadership

Emotional Intelligence: Leading Through Uncertainty and Building Inclusive Teams

Adrianna Mena
October 18, 2024

As the world around us grows more politically charged and emotionally strained, leadership requires a new kind of resilience. It’s no longer enough to focus solely on output or efficiency; leaders today are tasked with managing the mental and emotional well-being of their teams, especially as we navigate the fraught political landscape that is constantly at our doors. This month, our Leading Through Uncertainty: EQ for Effective Leadership workshop offered a timely space for leaders to hone their emotional intelligence (EQ) and develop strategies to support their teams—and themselves—through these uncertain times. When asked to describe emotional intelligence in a single word, participants shared responses like "empathy," "awareness," "compassion," and "connection"—qualities essential not only to managing today’s challenges but to fostering a truly inclusive workplace. These words underscore the depth and complexity that EQ brings to modern leadership, helping leaders create spaces where their teams feel understood and valued.

The Intersection of Leadership and Emotional Intelligence

What does it mean to lead through uncertainty? We’ve always believed that emotional intelligence is more than just a buzzword. It’s a skill set that’s deeply intertwined with effective leadership. Emotions aren’t meant to be silenced, pushed aside, or dismissed as “unprofessional.” Instead, emotions are powerful data that provide insight into our own experiences and those of the people around us. To lead well is to know how to navigate these emotional waters—not just in yourself, but in your team.

As leaders, the first step is recognizing that the divide between work and personal life is often an illusion. The real world—political tensions, family issues, or social unrest—finds its way into the workplace. A personal conflict outside the office can manifest in missed deadlines or disengagement at work. This doesn’t mean someone isn’t capable of doing their job; it means that they, like many of us, are trying to cope with life’s complexities in a world that asks us to compartmentalize at every turn.

Why EQ Matters in This Moment

Research shows that emotional intelligence has declined by over 5% globally since 2019. The pandemic didn’t just affect our physical health—it disrupted how we engage with each other emotionally. With anxiety and depression on the rise, the ability to exercise optimism and practice empathy has diminished. The sharpest decline, interestingly, has been in optimism—the kind of optimism that helps people create solutions, innovate, and push through challenges. This is why EQ has never been more relevant. As leaders, we’re tasked with helping our teams find those moments of optimism, even when things feel impossible.

In high stress, the impulse may be to ignore emotions to get things done. But the reality is that emotional intelligence is the key to getting things done well without burning out your team or yourself. Think about the last time you felt truly heard and seen by a leader—how much more willing were you to engage, innovate, and contribute? Emotional intelligence is the connective tissue between productivity and well-being. Creating environments where people can show up as their full selves goes beyond simply feeling good.

Practical Strategies for Leaders

  1. Know Yourself
    The first principle of emotional intelligence is self-awareness. As leaders, we need to be aware of how our emotions affect our decision-making. Are you reacting out of stress or fear? Are you ignoring how a tense political environment impacts your mood and, by extension, your team? Self-awareness is about understanding these internal triggers and how they influence your interactions. Reflect on this: What emotions are you bringing into the room? Are they helping or hindering your leadership?
  2. Choose Yourself
    Once you’ve identified your emotions, the next step is self-management. Can you pause long enough to respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively? This is especially important when tensions run high, whether in an election year or during a particularly tough quarter. During the workshop, we explored scenarios where this skill was put to the test. One key takeaway was the power of creating options. Instead of feeling stuck, ask yourself and your team, "How can we approach this situation?" Offering choices creates space for innovation and resilience.
  3. Give Yourself
    Empathy is at the core of this principle. It’s about showing up for your team in ways that acknowledge their humanity. It’s easy to dismiss an employee’s performance issues as “personal problems.” Still, the truth is personal problems do affect work—and it’s your role as a leader to provide the support that helps people thrive despite those challenges. Ask your team what they need to feel included, valued, and heard. Rather than solving personal problems, focus on making the workplace a safe space where people can show up as their full selves.

Reflecting on Our Workplaces

We don’t live in a vacuum, nor do our employees. The world outside (and sometimes inside) of our office doors is messy, full of contradictions, and brimming with emotional landmines. To pretend that these forces don’t impact our teams is not just naïve—it’s a missed opportunity for growth. People are not cogs in a machine; they are whole beings with complicated lives. Emotional intelligence helps us lead in a way that acknowledges this reality without compromising performance.

Political tensions will rise and fall, and new challenges will always be on the horizon. But what remains constant is our ability to lead with empathy and exercise emotional intelligence in a way that fosters resilience and inclusivity. As leaders, we must allow for the complexity of human experience while keeping our organizations moving forward. This is hard work, but it’s also the work that makes leadership worth it.

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